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” Some of the obvious clues are as follows: 1) He always wants to meet at your place, or around your place. Single guys usually want to take you to their place to put the moves on you. (Either he has a dirty smelly small cheap apartment in the ghetto, or he is living with someone he doesn’t want you to know about.) Hmmm, is he married? If he is totally resistive then you might suggest a restaurant in his neighborhood.
But I do know that if you ask people about something you suspect or are concerned about, a lot of them will be truthful with you. Does he make excuses why he can’t give you a home number? You might try calling him late at night some time with a problem. If he answers quickly and talks to you, then he probably is alone. Now of course if a guy has a wife who works a night shift, he can get away with this. Does he only meet you on a certain day of the week? So if you start a chatting or email relationship with someone you might just ask them. Not all of them will come clean, but a percentage will provide a truthful answer to that question: “Is he married? Sometimes there is a hidden message somewhere so that they don’t feel like they are lying. Does he only answer you phone calls at certain times of the day? But then his pattern would be that he could never talk to you at home during the day time. If he never picks up at all at certain times that are suspicious, try calling him at that time with your caller ID blocked, or call from a friends phone. (Perhaps it is the night his wife goes to her girl group or something.) Does he cancel on you frequently with odd excuses? They may say something like – “just ending a bad relationship ” or something to that effect to give you a clue that they still might actually be in a relationship. Usually (unless his family are scum too and will lie for him) he will try to avoid any kind of family meetings as they will know he is cheating. For the ones that you can’t weed out by internet chat and clues, well you are going to have to look for little clues when you meet them in person that may provide an answer to the question “Is he married? So there is another problem out there that I am getting in emails from women about. People logging on to those sites know the answer to “Is he married? Of course he could say he is recently divorced, but if he keeps putting that ring back on, it won’t ever go away, will it? Actually there are sites set up for married men and women to have affairs, but those are not the problem. Single men do their own laundry and have to clean up (or get a maid). If he can’t or won’t give it to you then you know something is up. And if he does fess up, don’t ever lose your integrity and fall for a sad story of how bad his wife treats him.
Apparently there are a lot of married guys out there on the internet pretending to be single. If he says he has a maid to get around specific answers, then say you were thinking of hiring a maid and ask for her name and number. If he gets vague and can’t answer you then you know that someone is probably cooking for him. And no matter how great he makes you feel by telling you that you are the best and most wonderful woman he has ever met, remember one thing, he is a liar and a cheater.
” The problem is when men get on and other traditional services and pretend to be single. Or does he have a girlfriend or is he living with someone?
I read somewhere that it is estimated that as much as one-third of the guys on these services are married or in relationships.
How do you tell from a website profile if a guy is single or not.
Can you figure out the answer to the question “Is he married” by quickly going over a profile?
Well, I don’t really know of anyway of doing that myself. Or if he always lets it ring a lot before answering, perhaps he is going into another room.